Mindful Monday: Stop Apologizing

I'd argue that each adult in this building is thoughtful, caring and considerate. If you weren't, you wouldn't be in the business of kids. 

But I ask, does being kind, thoughtful and considerate mean that we have to be apologetic all the time? 

How many times a day in your conversations do you find yourself apologizing for something that doesn't perhaps need an apology? "Sorry for bothering you, sorry for venting, sorry for taking up your time", etc... I'd argue that we over apologize and feel unnecessarily guilty, when in fact, we should shift our mindset.

Instead of apologizing, consider thanking. No longer, "sorry for bothering you", try "thank you for taking the time". Instead of "sorry for asking a favor...thank you for your generosity."  

During the month of November, we often reflect on all that we have to be thankful for. So I challenge you this month, instead of apologizing when it really isn't needed, shift your focus to what you are thankful for. Thank the people in your life that make your day a little easier, a little more bearable, and a little sunnier. Thank those in your life that support you, that lead a listening ear, and accept you for you. 

And with that, THANK YOU! Thank you for sharing your talents and time with our school family each day. Our students are better off because of you!